val asks :
Bad things always seem to happen to me and I'm just sick of it. I don't know whether I'm being paranoid but does this happen to most people? I spent the first 17 years living with a majorly abusive parent, eventually got away and was rejected by most people that I met, met a man who pressured me into two abortions, got engaged and had two car crashes just before my wedding so the day was spent in pain, found out there's a strong possibility I can't have children now and I'm not sure I can afford treatment anyway. To top it all of everyone dies all the time. I'm only 25. It's getting too much.
Yin replies
You have has a lot to deal with in just a few years, this is undeniable, however it appear that you need some support with how to deal with them. Why not book an appointment with your doctor to get a referral to a counsellor. These are big things for someone to deal with of any age, so it may be wise to try and talk about each one of them with a professional.
Yang replies
The important thing is that despite these events that have happened in your past, you try to not let them affect your future to a such large extent. If you learn how to talk about and process what has happened this will allow you to begin to see the good things that are in your life and not anticipate the next bad thing. It is not fair that these things that are out of your control have given you a negative outlook for the rest of you days. It may sounds impossible to imagine now, but with the right help you will be strong enough to move on and look forward.
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