Why are people annoyed by me being in love?

by Lucy Moore | 19 August 2014

Hi Skye,

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Being in love is a wonderful feeling and it can be easy to fall into the trap of thinking about the person you are in love with all the time.

Often if they are on your mind you might verbalise your thoughts, meaning you might talk about them all the time too.

If this sounds familiar then it might be worth just taking a step back and remembering that the people around you have other things that they want to talk about other than your love life.

If they ask about this person then that could be you opportunity to talk about them, however if they don’t then perhaps let them talk about what’s going on in their world for a while. If they are overdosed with conversations of your love life than they may need a rest from it.

Perhaps if you feel like you need to express your feelings for this person then you could write them down in a journal while you take some time out from telling others. This might let you release all your pent up happiness, but at the same time not affect those around you.

This time should pass- with very new love comes that rush of excitement and focus on their very move and word, but once your love becomes more familiar then you might find that you don’t feel so absorbed by them as much as you do now, which could inevitably filter down to those around you too.

 

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by Lucy Moore for relationships.femalefirst.co.uk
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