To dream about a bartender suggests that you like to be an enabler for others in everyday life. 

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In other words you like to be the person who makes things happen for others, sometimes before making them happen for yourself.  

Negatively, you might be someone who gets a kick out of encouraging others to indulge in destructive behaviours. 

More positively, you might like to enable people to be passionate and obsessive about things and people because you are this way too.  

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Ask yourself- is it in their best interests if your own feelings have become all consuming? Perhaps this person or these people don’t share the same enthusiasm as you do. It’s possible you need to take a step back and let them enjoy it in their own way.  

If you like to be actively involved in your hobbies and interests and get a buzz when others share them with you, the dream could be telling you to try and enjoy them on your own as much as you do with other people as they might not always be there. 

Perhaps you are indulging too much in something in your waking hours. Are you being irresponsible with your time, your things, yourself or with others? 

The dream might be warning you to stop and think before you help others. People might be taking advantage of your good nature. 

Some might benefit from learning on their own rather than receiving your help. You may be giving too much to other people and neglecting your own needs.

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A grapefruit is a citrus fruit, which is often very tart to taste, and this can mean people have a love/hate relationship with the fruit. Consider who else was with you in the dream or what you were doing- as this might give you some indication as to what or who you have a bittersweet relationship with. Is it worth the rough with the smooth or would you rather walk away? Along the same vein if you were eating a grapefruit and you don’t like them in your waking hours, you may be doing something or being pressured into something that you don’t want to or find unappealing... to read more click HERE 


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