Five things you should know before dating an Aries

24 March 2020

Written by Emily Horner @EmilyAMHorner

Aries on Female First

Dates: 20th March- 20th April

Symbol: The Ram

Element: Fire

Planet: Mars

House: 1st

Mode: Cardinal

If you have your eye on an Aries Sun or Venus then be aware that you are in for a wild ride with their enthusiastic and impulsive personality!

If you’re sure to keep them well entertained so their passion doesn’t wane- then a relationship with an Aries is sure to be exciting and a lot of fun.

CHILDLIKE:

Aries rules the 1st house of the zodiac wheel, the most childlike house. They exude youthful energy and people are attracted to how fun they are. They want to have lots of fun and excitement in relationships, they fall very hard very fast but can also move on very quickly. They may want the entire relationship to move quickly as they have this endearing, naive enthusiasm in relationships. However, if they are not well-stimulated they can lose interest very quickly.

ALL ABOUT ME:

Aries is the most debilitated placement for Venus. They can be selfish in their relationships, with Aries ruling the 1st house of the self. They will not want to compromise with their partner and they will hate to lose an argument or take any of the blame in disputes as they want things to go their own way. However, their ego and cardinal mode are what makes them independent and focused on their own interests. This confidence and go-getting trait can be attractive to others. Venus in Aries will fear to lose themselves in a relationship- they certainly don't want a relationship where you live in each others' pockets.

FIERCELY PASSIONATE:

A Venus in Aries will always have a lasting impact on others. They are very passionate and impulsive in love and can fall in love, often at first sight, very fast, taking the object of their affection by surprise. As a fire sign, they enjoy the chase- maybe even more than the relationship it results in itself, as they have high hopes for it. However, the flame will burn out just as fast if they get bored, and will look elsewhere to feel that fire again. They will not shy away from any drama or challenges in relationships as they thrive off the heated passion of an argument.

COMPETITIVE:

If somebody else fancies the same love interest that a Venus in Aries does- they will certainly not shy away from still persuing them and may even see it as a competition. But they will not compete for someone who self-pities too much, is meek and passive, or isn't as direct as they are. These people are adrenaline-junkies, as they are ruled by Mars the planet of war, who will not think things through before they act as they love the impulsivity. Like the Ram symbolism of their sign, they will just charge ahead towards their desires. They want a relationship with someone who encourages them to be their best and doesn't hold them back. However, they need to learn how to share the spotlight with a partner- they don't need to always be dominating others or do things just to get a certain reaction.

LUSTFUL:

The Venus in Aries loves attention, so they may be very flirtatious or love people to stare at them. They will be up-front and direct if they like you and can get infatuated with a love interest quickly. Although ensure you keep their attention as they may find it hard to just stick to the one love interest at a time if they got bored. They may also need to be mindful of their jealous streak- they will always want to be the most attractive or magnetic person in the room.