Sick and tired of people telling you what not to do on a date? We hear you, so we’ve got some advice from eHarmony relationship expert Jenni Trent-Hughes.
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Jenni admits there isn’t any magic formula for making a date work but she does believe you should knock down those dating boundaries.
She’s got one rule and one rule only – make your own dating rules!
Here are some tips from Jenni on how to improve your chances at online dating whilst throwing out the rule book and making your own!
1. Reach out
If you see a profile that you like the look or sound of then make contact. There is no point spending weeks peeking at each other through cyberspace - say hello.
2. Step outside your regular boundaries
Online dating is a golden opportunity to interact with people you might not originally have considered. Remember the first time against your better judgement you chose coconut ice cream and now it's your favourite? That person who is a little older, a bit younger, that you’re attracted to but doesn’t match up to your usual ‘type’. That might just be The One.
3. If you want to ask them out - just do it
Man or woman, we are in the 21st Century and we can do things that are new without the roof caving in. Traditionally men might have been the first to initiate a date, however things have evolved and it’s flattering to be asked out whatever your sex.
4. Be honest
Be yourself. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Forget mind games, just be yourself and eventually you will find someone who is exactly the person you are looking for and you to them.
5. Learn to let go
We all have baggage, but when it comes to dating try and leave any hang ups at the door. Negative experiences in the past can affect the way you approach a new relationship, and although it’s good to be cautious, it’s also good to go in with a fresh new slate. Have fun and let your true self be at the forefront.