Why is being gay a 'lifestyle'? A lifestyle is where you live, where you go on holiday and how you spend your money- not who you choose to love.

Just why?

Just why?

Why do you assume interest? Everyone has a type- you might not be their type, everyone has a standard- you may not be up to theirs- don't flatter yourself.

Why do THEIR kids matter so much? Shouldn't you be interested more in your own ability to have them? If a gay couple wants to have kids- they will figure it out- there are ways and means.

Who is the man in a lesbian relationship? Why do you feel the need to ask this? They are both female- that is all.

Why are you offended if someone thinks you're gay? If strangers think gay people are straight- they are not all that bothered- why is it so offensive the other way around?

How does it feel to be overrepresented? Gay people have a distinct lack of people in film and TV they can relate to- is this fair?

How does it feel to have so much choice? There is a huge dating pool for you to dip your toes in- why do you take that for granted by having a really high divorce rate?

Why do you have to call it a 'gay wedding'? It's just a wedding- defined as; 'the act of marrying' 'the ceremony or celebration of a marriage' or 'the act or an instance of joining closely' nowhere does it say- 'between men and women only'.

Why do you set them up with the first gay person you find? They don't try and set you up with every one of their straight friends- you need to have a little more in common than sexuality to successfully maintain a relationship- just you know- FYI.


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