Nicole asks :
I've been dating a guy since March, see eachother once a week atleast, he tells me he really likes me, enjoys spending time with me. We're basically in a relationship without the title, he's said he wouldn't date or sleep with any other girl while we are doing what were doing and that he wants me to trust him which I do. The past 2 times he's arranged to meet up with me he's cancelled because of sickness but doesn't rearranged straight away or even make out like he's bothered he didn't see me. I feel like he's messing me around and I'm getting frustrated as I really like this guy but I feel like he doesn't the same back but he says he does. What shall I do?! Need serious help!
If he is not going to sleep with anyone else or date anyone else then it should be easy for him to label this a relationship. If he won’t then there is something wrong. If he is not keen to see you after a cancelled date or seem bothered that you didn’t meet then he is clearly not. Guys tend to wear their heart on their sleeve and if they don’t make an effort it’s because they are not interested.
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He seems to say the right things to keep you going along with this, but you are right he is messing you around, he needs to commit or you need to move on and find someone else who will be exclusive with you.
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