Adeebah asks :

 Hi Lucy, How can I get back with my ex? He doesn’t talk to me anymore.

Hi Adeebah,

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Agony Aunts on Female First

If he doesn't want to talk to you then maybe this is his way of moving on and perhaps you should do the same.

By trying to get in touch with him you might only be putting yourself through unnecessary hurt if he doesn't want to talk- it might leave you feeling rejected.

Although it may hurt you now that he is ignoring your attempts to make contact, it may be a good thing in the long term as him cutting all ties, means there is no confusion here on his part.

Maybe try to focus on your friends, family, hobbies or interests to take your mind of texting or calling him? Hopefully, once you get out of the habit, you won't miss him as much.

If he is unwilling to talk it out, then perhaps try to focus on yourself for a while. Half of the battle is being able to be happy on your own- try to think about your future and not focus on the past.


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