Imy asks :

Hi Lucy,

I met this guy, we went out on trips a couple of times and went to the cinema then he asked me out but for some stupid reason I turned him down, I still really like him but now he hardly ever talks to me or ignores me what do I do?

Hi Imy,

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Agony Aunts on Female First

Perhaps the reason that he hardly talks to you is that your decline of his offer of a date knocked his confidence. If you went out a couple of times, then maybe it led him to believe that there was the possibility of more dates to follow. If you were in a bit of a routine, then this sudden change might have affected his self-esteem.

Maybe go and ask him out and let him know that you regret turning him down and that you still like him. If it has not been that long since you declined his date then perhaps he still has feelings for you too. It will do his ego the world of good if you tell him that you really like him still, so maybe if he allows you the time to explain then you could find yourself on another date. If not then at least you have had the chance to tell him that you are sorry and maybe you can see each other as friends. 


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