Maz asks :
Hi Lucy,
The person I thought was my best friend has invited other friends to look at something that we both have an interest in but I haven’t been invited.
Our Reply
Hi Maz,
Have you spoken to her about it? It might be that you need to talk to her about how her actions have made you feel and find out why she has done it. Try to give her the benefit of the doubt until you know- there could be an explanation for her behaviour that you have not thought of.
If she has done this deliberately, then perhaps she is not the friend you thought she was and it might be time to find someone who won’t intentionally try to upset you or find it in yourself to forget and forgive.
The only way you will know for sure is to be honest about the impact it’s had on you and give her a chance to explain before making your final judgement.
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