Paul asks :

Hi Lucy,

What did she mean when she said "you do nothing for me" after I said "I’ve got my legs out just for you?"

Our Reply

Hi Paul,

The comment ‘you do nothing for me’ usually means that the person is not attracted to you. If you have made a flirty gesture like getting your legs out for her then it sounds like she is not interested in seeing them or pursuing anything that you are hinting at by exposing them to her.

It seems that you might not be a match for this woman but that doesn’t mean that you can’t find someone else who will find you and your legs attractive.

I would suggest staying friends with the woman you refer to and find someone else who will appreciate the gestures you make that are just for them, like you did her.

At least now, you are clear on how this woman feels about you and can move on and find someone else. 


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