Amy asks :

Hi Lucy,

I am a 21 year old and I've recently finished college. So, my problem is that I've had two close(ish) friends (both guys) for the last 2/3 years. They were both in relationships at some point during college, one until quite recently (we'll call him Boy A). The other one had been single for about a year and always flirted with different girls on a night out (Boy B). Boy A had been in a long term relationship until she broke it off. I think he took it bad, as he worshipped this girl. Basically, to cut a long story short, I got together with Boy A a few days after the break up, where he said he'd always fancied me. Following on from this, I was ignored and treated quite badly. He blanked me for a few days and drunkenly told me one night that he'd made a mistake and it should be all be forgotten about. Then, he confessed a few weeks later that he was simply lashing out, because his feelings were all over the place, again confessing he always fancied me. We got together once more, but that was that. At this point, I was starting to fall for him, but I wouldn't let him know this. However, things quickly went back to the way they were and I decided our friendship was more important. On a recent night out, Boy B got together with me. It was totally meaningless, just a quick kiss but I've started to really fancy him. The only problem is my best friend REALLY likes him, and has done so for years, so I can't do anything about it!! So, should it be Boy A or Boy B? Or, should I forget about them in that way altogether and try to find Boy C? HELP!!!