Kristin Cavallari does laundry while sexting her husband.

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler

The 29-year-old reality TV star has children Camden, three, Jaxon, 23 months, and five-month-old Saylor with her husband Jay Cutler and while she and the Chicago Bears quarterback like to spice up their relationship with steamy texts, Kristin admitted that it's not as racy as Jay thinks.

She told chat show host Steve Harvey: "This is a little secret and now Jay's gonna know, but half the time, I'm doing other stuff. I'm doing my nails, I'm folding laundry, and then I'll kind of do a little text."

Kristin also credited therapy with saving her relationship with Jay, 32.

She said: "I think it's important for people to know that there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, you know? We work on it. It's true. We love each other and we want to make it work, but I 100 per cent credit our therapist for saving our relationship. We've come so far being in therapy both individually and together as a couple, that it's been incredibly beneficial.

"We moved very quickly: We got engaged after eight months, and then we actually broke up about two and a half, three months later. Called off the engagement. And then we got back together, and when we got back together, I kind of went through a little phase where I didn't know if I wanted to get married. I think it was really more about my ego, I had one foot in and one foot out and that was ridiculous. And if we were gonna be together and really give it a shot, that wasn't fair. So, I decided to grow up, I guess."