Ash asks :
I've known my close friend for as long as I can remember. We both have a caravan on the same park so we used to see a lot of each other. We have always been close but recently we have grown a lot closer, through emails, texts and phone calls. Unfortunately my family had to sell their caravan so I spent one last weekend there with him. It was the best weekend of my life, it was like something off a romantic movie. However now I've came home and I'm a complete mess without him. I think I've fallen for him. I'm scared I'm never going to see him again and if I tell him how I feel then he may not want to. I'm not sure what can come of this because we live 200 miles apart but I know I'd try hard if we agreed to make it work but I'm not sure he does, he's always saying he doesn't want a long distance relationship and I always went along with it. What do I do? Do I tell him and hope for the best, hope he feels the same way? Or do I bottle it up, hope it goes away & don't risk losing him?
Yin replies
The only way you will find out is by asking, if you don’t you will always be wondering what might have happened and a life with regret is of no quality. If you really care about him and if he does say no then at least you will make the effort to keep it working as a friendship.
Yang replies
You guys have a lot of history it is not likely that it will be all thrown away because of a crush, you may think that you have fallen for him, but it could also be because he is moving away and you are simply losing a good friend who you enjoy spending time with.
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