Bathabile Sekgobel asks :
I broke up a year ago with my ex boyfriend and ever since then I haven't been with a guy. I am now dating some guy but his best and I want each other. We both wanna have sex with each other but we know its not right. I don't know what to do coz our desire is so strong.
Yin replies
Yin / Tyler
Lucy says:
By his best I presume you mean his best friend. If you are not into this guy, which it sounds as if you are not because you are looking elsewhere then you need to come clean. If it has been a year since you have had sex your desires will be strong, but you need to stay monogamous with whoever you decide to sleep with. It will be incredibly difficult for the guy you are dating to accept that you are more attracted to his best friend, but the longer you keep things going with him the worse it will become.
Yang replies
Yang / Lydia
Cameron says:
You’re obviously not that keen on the first guy then if you want to sleep with his friend. So talk to the man you’re with, explain you want something else and then move on to his friend. Maybe give it a week or two though before you and the new guy hook up, just so it doesn’t look too suspicious. Whatever you do, don’t cheat with him as that will ruin your partner, especially if the two of you haven’t slept together yet.
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