Dreamer asks :
I really like this boy in school but i dont think he sees me in that way at all. I want to try and look attractive for school and stuff but i dont know how. Im 15 and i wear a headscarf and im thinking maybe thats also putting him off help me please
Lucy says:
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Why do you think he doesn’t like you? The most attractive girls are the ones that don’t hide behind tons of makeup and hairspray. The more natural you are the better, as a load of product means that you look a lot different in the morning when it’s all gone! Don’t worry about your headscarf, as this only accentuates your face more. Why would this put him off? The most important his is that you click and get along as friends first; if you have this chemistry then you will attract him no matter what. Aim to find that connection rather than worrying about superficial things. Despite what people tell you when you are at school people get together and stay together if they get on, looks fade but friendships within a romance don’t.
Cameron says:
If he’s the type of superficial boy to let a headscarf stand in the way, then he’s not the type of boy you should be going for. If you want to be attractive, then you need to have confidence in yourself. Dress how you want to dress and act how you want to act. Don’t go chasing after him and try to impress him; it will only make you feel bad. If you two get along, then concentrate on that and simply talk with him. Show him why you’re ace that way.
However, if you want to accentuate your features, the best place to do so is your eyes. Maybe try some subtle eye makeup, to really make them stand out. Ask your mum if you want some help, but remember, you don’t want to look like you’re auditioning for TOWIE. And only keep it if you like it.
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