Elena asks :
I was with this guy for three months. I used to be with him so much, I love him so badly, he got married once and then he broke up.
He's 45 and I'm 22,my family don't want we get married but I can't get him out of my head, I've decided to commit suicide please help me out - what am I going do? I'm going crazy.
Yin replies
If you really are feeling suicidal, you should seek immediate support from your GP and possibly call The Samaritans helpline (08457 90 90 90) .
Feelings of desperation of this level, over a short-term relationship, aren’t typical and although you’re prevented from being together, you must believe there will be a way to get through this.
Your family probably worry about the age gap but to you it is a much more serious issue, because you feel you don’t want to live without him. There are ways to deal with this but you need support, immediately.
Yang replies
You say you have decided to commit suicide - this sounds very final and you haven’t written much detail about the situation, so it is really difficult to offer you advice.
Can you talk to your family and make them realize how important this guy is to you? Remember, three months with him is a short basis for making life-changing decisions.
The age gap is not too large and so there must be a way of resolving this problem. Don’t give up.
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