ROSE YUNG asks :
sorry am 13 i would be 14 september and am still flat front and back i wear padded bra to make it look big and anytime my friends come around i rush to wear my bra so they wont see what am hidding all of them are busty and they have butt up to the extent that my friend wears a net bra i have started puberty but all havent started what can i do to increase my hips, breast and butt and am tall
Yin replies
Firstly there is no need to apologise, it has taken courage to write in so pat yourself on the back! You are still only young, so you still have a lot of time to develop. Don’t be ashamed of having smaller boobs as this is something you will be grateful of later in life as all your friends will have been affected by gravity! Once yours do grow more they will be perkier and your friends will be jealous!
Yang replies
Your development is not something you can really hurry along, it is something that will happen once your body is ready to. Many women strive to look the way you do, to be tall and slim, as big boobs, hips and bums are the burden for a lot of women. They struggle to find trousers to fit, and tops to accommodate their heft at the front. Don’t focus on what you don’t have, focus on what you do. Clothes will hang on you better, trousers will fit and you have it all with no effort. Women spend years trying to get your physique so be grateful that you have it! If you feel self-conscious about your breasts, try wearing tops with frills at the front, with patterns or a cami top as these will all make you look bigger in this area, avoid tops that are low cut as this will accentuate your problem.
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