I am horny and should I shave?

12 October 2012

Malinda asks :

I'm 18, I have to questions. 1) I'm horny all the time what can i do? 2) I don't know whether to shave the downstairs area, what do guys prefer? Thank You

Yin replies

Yin / Tyler Hi Malinda,

1. You are at the prime age to feel this way, so there is nothing to be ashamed of. The issue is if you want to act upon it? Is there someone in your life that you can experience your sexuality with or perhaps you could invest in some tools for masturbation!?

2. It is entirely a matter of preference. It is not more hygeinic to have no hair so if this is going through your mind then dont worry as it is just as clean with or without hair. Keep in mind that regular shaving can cause itchiness and possible cuts to your sensitive area of you are inexperienced in shaving around there. Men like both, it all comes down to communication with whoever you sleep with. Too much hair can put off some as it an get in the way of oral sex and some like the more natural look. This is something you need to talk through with a partner. They may feel just as unsure as there is the decision of trimming or natural for men too.

Yang replies

Yang / Lydia hi Malinda,

1. We all have pangs of feeling horny, sometimes we can act on them sometimes not. You could try masturbation without the aid of toys as a cheaper way to satisfy your urges?

2. You should stick with whatever you are most comfortable with as it is you that has to maintain it. Shaving obviously has the most upkeep and leaving it natural poses less trouble for you. If you dont want to shave then try a hair removal creme instead or waxing as this may give a cleaner finish. Stand by with whatever you like though, if it is not a massive deal and only a little niggle with the person you are sleeping with then do what you want. It may be fashionable to have it shorter and neater in a hollywood or a brazillian, perhaps with the bang on trend 'vajazzle' but do what you feel is best for you.