stevie asks :
my wife likes to exhibit herself to strangers. i dont mind this but she now want the men she shows her self to "to touch her. should i let her
Yin replies
When you say exhibit herself, under what circumstances and what does she exhibit? This is something that is entirely relationships to relationship specific. If you feel ok with her being with other men, either being touched by them or having sex with them, these are terms you have to agree together. How would you feel if you knew she had been with another man in a sexual sense? Some couples agree to see other people, however it is usually discussed and conditions are set. Some couples prefer to date; others refer to have sex with other people, such as ‘Swingers’. This involves you also engaging in sex with other people however usually at an agreed place and time. It all depends what you decide will work best for your unit. You may not want to engage in sexual acts with anyone other than her, but she might.
Yang replies
She may want to have threesome. Is this something that you might consider? That way you would be involved and maybe rekindle some of the passion between the two of you at the same time. The same can be said of swinging. A lot of couples have found this a good way to learn new sexual practices that they then take back to the bedroom with their original partner. If you have doubts it is probably not for you. If your wife does sleep with someone else there is no way to reverse it, so make sure that it is what you both want. The most important thing is to make sure she is safe with whoever she wants to have sex with other than you, if that is what you decide to do. There is a fine line beween experimentation and cheating so know where that is first.
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