Kaitlyn asks :
Hi Lucy,
I just got back with my ex-boyfriend and my best friend won’t talk to me now what do I do?
Hi Kaitlyn,
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There could by many emotions wrapped up in you getting back with your ex for your best friend.
They might be jealous that you have someone and they don't (if they are single).
They might be resentful that your ex will potentially take up your time leaving little for you and them.
They might not agree with you getting back with your ex and find it difficult to tell you so avoid you altogether.
You will not know their reason for not talking to you unless you try and talk to them.
If you friend refuses to talk to you, then you may have to wait for them to deal with whatever they are feeling about your relationship before they make the first move.
You could try and get in touch by calling, texting or asking to meet so you feel you have made an effort to find out what's happened since you got a boyfriend again. However, there is no guarantee that your friend will reach out and talk even if you do. If you miss your friend, then it might be worth trying to be the one to initiate contact again, as it sounds like you need to know the reason for their sudden change of heart.
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