Don't just drown her in chocolate and flowers
A survey has shown that most think it’s the thought that counts on Valentine’s Day, and are suspicious of extravagant gifts. Research by chocolate company Lindor found that 80% said the most important thing about a Valentine’s gift is the thought that’s gone into it. Over a quarter of people, (28%) revealed that they are suspicious of grand gestures and extravagant behaviour, so it seems it’s the small gestures that will have the biggest impact. Relationship expert Sam van Rood, believes love and romance is getting back to basics for 2009. He says, "This February 14th a budget Valentine's will win you more romantic brownie points than splashing out on expensive presents. Thoughtful, simple gifts are all you need to show your partner you love them. “Popular gestures that women all over the world love are small but beautiful gifts which include running a bath for a partner surprising her with a babysitter for some me (or us)-time or simply buying her favourite chocolate - actions which revealed both consideration and an appreciation of the other partner's individual needs and wants." The survey also revealed that most only tend to plan Valentine’s Day gifts 9 days in advance and men plan further ahead than women do - perhaps they know better than to forget! Kate Teasdale