The secrets to a happy relationship

1 May 2013

There’s no magic formula when it comes to relationships but there are some tips to help you both feel happy within the relationship.

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Take a look at these little secrets (that aren’t really so secret!) for having a happy and healthy relationship.

Learn to Compromise

Yes, it’s the dreaded word ‘compromise’ that builds the foundations to any relationship and so it’s something you’ll have to learn to do.

There will be plenty of times when you won’t agree with one another, from what flooring you should have in the kitchen to what you’re going to watch on TV and the only way you’ll get through it is compromise.

If there’s something you’re not keen on doing then instead of offering the complete opposite, offer a happy medium. It’s all about give and take so agree to something so long as he’ll do something in return.

Air Your Thoughts

Communication is essential in a relationship so if you’re sick of finding his toe nail clippings on the floor then tell him.

We’re not saying have a full blown argument every time he wants to watch Top Gear even though you want to watch Millionaire Matchmaker, but you’ll never solve things if you don’t talk about them.

It can often be difficult to know what men are thinking so if you’re unsure of where you stand, ask him to tell you what he’s got on his mind and in return you’ll do the same.

Spend Time Apart

It’s not healthy to spend all your time together as a couple, you’ve both got to live your own lives too.

A great way to do this is to dedicate a night each week on which you’ll both see your friends or work it so that you both get time alone.

Suggest he goes out on a Tuesday so you can have the house to yourself and have some all-important ‘me time’ and then do the same for him on another night.

Make Time for Date Night

It’s all too easy to get into the habit of collapsing on the sofa after work and watching TV in silence so make time for date nights.

Go out on a date once a week, this will give you time to actually enjoy each other’s company and talk without the distraction of home life.

Many celeb couples have be known to praise date nights for keeping their relationship strong so give it a go!

Have a Healthy Sex Life

Not only is it plenty of fun but having regular sex will bring you closer as a couple as it will increase the intimacy you feel for each other.

Experts say that a healthy sex life should consist of having sex between two to three times a week so try to hit that target.

Too tired? Sex doesn’t have to be wild and rampant, there are plenty of positions that are great for when you don’t feel like getting energetic.