Emma asks :
I'm 18 my boyfriend's 20. We both live together but I've noticed a few things recently like he gave me a seperate quilt to him in bed and we don't cuddle up anymore and he rarely tells me he loves me. Now I have started sleeping in a different bed. How can you save my relationship. is it worth saving??
Yin replies
If you think the relationship is worth saving talk to you're boyfriend, ask him why these changes have happened and if he feels, like you do that there is something worth saving.
It could be that he is going through something at the moment and feels like he can't talk to you which is why he's distanced himself.
If you both think it's better to walk away, I know it sounds patronising but you are only young and there will be plenty more boys out there.
Yang replies
Tell you're boyfriend that he has made your relationship different and if thing sdon't start changing you are leaving.
After all he has made all these changes without even explaining it to you.
Do you really want to be with someone who can't tell you he loves you, or even sleep in the same bed as you?
Thought not, tell him to make some changes or you'll find someone who does appreciate you.
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