lisa asks :
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, he doesnt want to sleep with me anymore. we havent had sex for 4 months. I think its cos Ive put weight on. I dont know what to do , please help.Yin replies
You need to talk to your boyfriend about this and ask him what is bothering him. It is common for the amount of sex people have in relationships to decrease after you have been together for a long period of time, but it doesn't by any means mean that you should have none. Ask him if there is something bothering him, and talk through it together. Otherwise this could end up driving you apart.Yang replies
Have you tried making any advances on your boyfriend? Dress up in some sexy lingerie (which can be found in our online catolog) and spice up your fun in the bedroom. Try introducing games to help you both to gain back your confidence. See if this works. Good luck.Need Help?
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