sue asks :

when me and my partner are havin sex he laughs but only when i am on top when ever i ask him why he just laughs more plz help

Yin replies

He is probably nervous; really don’t worry about him laughing as someone who works in comedy I often use laughter to mask feelings of insecurity. I have even been known to crack a joke during sex. Take no notice of him, laugh back, in fact try laughing when he is on top right in his face and that should do the trick.

Yang replies

Have you thought that the angle with him beneath you might not be the most flattering – perhaps you have whiskers you didn’t know about or have a few bats in the cave.

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