emmanuel magai asks :
It all started on the 20th of july i meet a girl online even duo i did'nt see her green light that welcome my friendship bt i intend quiting my 2years reletionship girlfrend here in nigeria 4 her
Yin replies
What is it about this girl that seems better than your girlfriend? It sounds like you don’t really know her, only from your online conversations, so it’s a lot to give up for this type of interaction. You say that you didn’t really see the green light to become her friend but you did anyway, so how do you know that she feels the same way? Don’t forget that some people online masquerade as other people and sometimes you are not talking to who you think you are, so be careful, she may not be as genuine as you think.
Yang replies
If you want to leave your girlfriend of two years then this is more to do with the existing problems rather than a new one. You are possibly using this online flirtation as an excuse to get out while you can. Be honest with your girlfriend, if you want to leave her; don’t wait for another girl to come along before you decide this.
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