M asks :

Hi Lucy,         

When I was a first year student in the university, my best friend introduced me to her friend who's one year older than us. I instantly liked him and his personality, which is quite similar to mine. We even joined drama class together. One day at a party, we bumped into each other and started dancing and kissing. Eventually, he asked me to go to his place. I was hesitant at first but I was really drawn to him, so I did. We made out in his place but we didn't have sex cause I really wanted to know him better. The morning after, I went back home and felt so disappointed. I felt like I'd let him down and there is no way I could pursue a relationship with him. Fast forward a year later, I still can't stop thinking about him. Am I just hang up on my unfinished business or am I doing the right thing by moving on with my life (cause I'm pretty sure that's what he's been doing too). My friend gave me the address of his blog and now I can't stop reading and checking it every day. I really want to comment on that blog but not sure if that's the right thing to do.