lisa asks :

I am so confused and have no real friends i can talk to, i have slept with a women but am married, and all i do now is look at women and get turned on, i wont even sleep with my husband now!

Yin replies

Have you ever had feelings this way for women before? Perhaps your attraction towards women now is because it is forbidden fruit? Being married and straight, it is something that is new and exciting and if you have not had sex with your partner in a while, it may be because you are still pining over the excitement you are feeling over your new experience.

Yang replies

It could be that you are bisexual and that sleeping with a woman has unleashed these feelings in you. A lot of women do think about females and watch girl on girl porn to get themselves in the mood for sex with their partners so this is nothing to be ashamed of. Try not to rush into thinking that you are completely off men as the honeymoon period of sleeping with a woman will wear off and you may regret doing anything rash until you are 100% sure of what you want.


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