sheri zeller asks :
how come i feel like my boyfriend does not want me any more when we watch porn toutgher
Yin replies
Watching porn with your partner can be very rewarding as it can get you in the mood as well as get you to try new sexual experiences in the bedroom. It can also have another affect; the one you are describing. The women in porn often have had cosmetic and expensive procedures to make them look younger or tighter and they wear a lot of makeup to look airbrushed on the film and so are not the most ideal women to compare yourself too. Your partner is aware that the women on these films are not a normal reflection of women and that is the key to the attraction to them. They are part of sexual fantasy. Why do you think he does not want you anymore? Has he said anything for you to think this? Is it just a feeling you have?
Yang replies
If you are not comfortable or happy with this part of your sex life you need to talk to your partner about stopping it or finding something else in its place. Often when you try things in the bedroom some work and some don’t, don’t be too downhearted about this not being for you.
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