dadirai guveya asks :
i am a 20 year old lady and i am so shy to make love to my boyfriend ,how do i do it
Yin replies
Sex for the first time with your partner is always a nervous moment, however it is like anything, until you have done it you will never get over the fear. Has your boyfriend had partner before? If so he will be able to guide you and show you what to do. If he cares for you, he will be patient with you in doing this. The point is if you care a lot about each other, things will go wrong, positions wont work, you may not orgasm the first few times; sex is a learning experience for all involved. Even if your partner has had previous sexual partners, you still have to find a rhythm together and find out what each other’s likes and dislikes are. Don’t put too much pressure on the situation, have fun with it. You are not being graded or criticised you are just exploring each other.
Yang replies
Remember that everyone has or will have to go through this, so even if you are experienced with sex you can still remember a time when it was scary and unfamiliar. All I would say is do what makes you feel comfortable, don’t rush into it and make sure that you have a lot of foreplay to get you in the mood and get you familiar with each other’s bodies.
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