stacey asks :
Technically this older guy that I see more times than none has caught my eye. When we first met we talked for a good half hour before he had to move his van. ( he's a courier) anyway whenever I've seen him he had always locked eyes with me and smiled at me sometimes a cheeky grin would appear even when other people have been stood around me his gaze appeared to be looking at me no other person. Recently I've also noticed that when he sees me out and about he will smile and wave at me is he just being polite? What leads me to think he may like me is because he asked a lot of questions when we first met all about me and very little about himself. While I've been talking to him I've locked eyes with him, glanced away and then looked back to him and his eyes are still looking at me. The biggest give away was when he'd gone across the road to deliver a parcel and so I glanced out the window and he caught me looking so I pulled away quickly. About a few seconds later he came to my door, so I answered and he said new tried to deliver a parcel but there was no answer, he said he also tried the neighbours either side the house he was delivering to but for no answer. Now art this point I was thinking to myself there's no way in the short amount of time it took from you seeing me looking through the window did you go to both neighbours houses either side before coming here. Did he lie as to not make it obvious that he wanted to come to the house? He could have gone next door since people were in but chose to come to my house. I'm so confused and would like some feedback. What so use think
Yin replies
Yin / Tyler
Lucy says:
If you can engage in healthy conversation with this guy then there is a spark. Prolonged eye contact is usually a sign that someone is attracted to you and the general rule of thumb is that if someone is interested in your then they will ask a lot of questions. However, sometimes if we let someone else speak it is sometimes because we are shy. He may have realised that you like him and feel embarrassed or shy about it, which could explain why he didn’t want to see you after you were stood at the window. The signs do look positive, but the only way you will find out is to ask him out!
Yang replies
Yang / Lydia
Camerons says:
If he’s giving you almost constant eye contact, is asking a lot of questions and if he seems to talk in an almost smile (you can mainly tell by the eyes) then he’s into you. Don’t go too much off what he does in the car, but his natural body language is speaking very clearly here. Trust your gut on this one, all signs are pointing towards him liking you. Just make the first move and see what happens.
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