Hannah asks :
I cant get "wet" anymore before having sex with my boyfriend, i did with other people and i did untill about 7 months ago and im worried that ive gone of him or got bored of him sexually. I still get turned on and want sex and we try different things and stuff but i just dont get wet anymore also i cant orgasm threw sex please help because i realy dont want him to think its his fault x
Yin replies
Vaginal dryness is generally caused by a change in your hormones, which is usually attributed to a change in the pill. The pill does not only prevent your from getting pregnant but it also alters everything else to do with your hormone levels, which includes how dry you are before and during sex. Try talking to your doctor about changing your pill, after explaining the problems you are having.
Yang replies
Try spending more time on foreplay; make this a significant part of your time together so you can be relaxed and aroused as much as possible. Natural lubrication is not great when it comes into contact with latex so if you are using a condom or not still use lube. It reduces the likelihood of condom breakage and just makes sex a lot easier for both of you. Try to avoid flavoured lubes and ones designed to tingle or cool etc., as these can become an irritant and are designed more for oral sex rather than penetrative sex.
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