Seduction
Eye contact can be one of the most powerful seduction tools at your disposal, yet it is often an overlooked and under-utilised skill. When you consider that 55% of communication occurs without words, it’s important that you get it right if you want to make a lasting impression.
"The basic components of eye behaviour are easy to master, once you know how they work. Follow these four simple steps to ensure you always use your eyes fluently and with dazzling effect", said communication consultant and body language expert Elizabeth Kuhnke.
Establish: Meeting a person’s eyes is the first step towards striking up a conversation and making a positive impression. Make short frequent glances towards your target, if that person looks back and holds your gaze then "permission" has been granted to approach them and introduce yourself.
Maintain: Extend the length of your eye contact whilst they are speaking. The gaze for an average listener is three seconds, but by extending it to five seconds you reinforce your interest in the individual. By paying attention and demonstrating care, you not only make others feel important, but in their eyes you will be perceived as attractive.
Maximise Impact: As your eyes are the first thing a person notices when they meet you and are the focal point during conversation, it is important that they look their best.
Widen: Large eyes make a person look more appealing - a hard wired impulse which draws us towards youthful and energetic partners. Make your eyes appear larger by raising your brows and slightly lowering your eye lids - a technique that Hollywood beauties like Marilyn Monroe used to devastating effect.
The perfect seduction technique, just in time to bag yourself a Valentine!
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