All You Wanted To Know About The G-Spot

3 November 2009

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The all encompassing question is it real?

Well according to many women and experts its real though science remains sceptical, sex therapists though have no such doubts that it is a reality. Most agree that it is a general area, varying in placement, size, sensitivity and appeal.

Does every woman have one?

Different women give different responses some believe they do and some don’t. Most experts agree that because of the varying sensitivity and appeal, women react differently to stimulation, which gives a false impression that it only exists in some women. Some experts believe that the G-spot’s sensitivity is due to Skene’s (or paraurethral glands) in the area. The number of glands varies from woman to women, so it is a reasonable assumption to conclude,the size and level of sensitivity of the area also varies greatly.
Other experts disagree and say that glands play only a small part of the sexual reactionsclaim and that the particular nerve endings surrounding the glands produce an orgasm completely different to one produced by clitoral stimulation. The same tissue that makes up the clitoris also holds the paraurethral glands and that when aroused, that area swells and increases in sensitivity.

Is it in the same place on every woman?

It’s on the front wall of the vagina. Depending on the woman, it could be anywhere from one centimeter up to one-third of the way up the vagina. It surrounds the urethra so it is easy to find it yourself by pushing your fingers inside your vagina. It feels like a series of hard ridges rough against the smooth vaginal wall. By stroking it gently itwill make you feel the need to pee. the urge is a result of pressure on the sponge. It causes the same sensation as when a full bladder puts pressure on it.

Explor it yourself first

Not everyone likes that area of their vagina to be stimulated, many women find it irritating instead of arousing, most importantly don't feel pressured if its not for you its not for you and pressure will ensure that you never find out. Relax experiment and enjoy yourself about it is a really bad idea, Don’t fake it for your partner. and for the partner do not worry about it. If she wants you to explore with her, then follow her lead. Don’t feel bad if you don’t find it or she doesn’t like it.

But you should try it yourself several times before getting your partner then you will know what you like or dislike and then you can guide your partner. Before sex or self-stimulation, empty your bladder so that you feel more confident in letting inhibitions go. Use your fingers to find the rough area and then firmly stroke it up and down in an upward motion. You could also try using a curved toy to reach it. If you don’t like it at all, then leave it. It’s not the only way to orgasm, if it feels good, continueignore the urge to pee until orgasm is reached. Try pushing out with your vaginal muscles when you feel your orgasm is coming it can help you to get there. This may cause you to leak a sexual fluid otherwise described as a female ejaculation.

Stimulating the G-spot can feel great even if you don’t orgasm from it so allow yourself to enjoy it without feeling like you have to orgasm from it, you can orgasm from clitoral stimulation in the attempt. As you experiment more, you may find your own way of reaching an orgasm.

Get used to how it feels so that when you are with your lover, you can recognize the feeling as you experiment with different sexual positions. Experiment with different types of stroking motions and vary the pressure. Use your fingers or a toy in a curling motion on your G-spot. Continue with this motion without taking your finger all the way out of your vagina. Then try circular motions and go back and forth.

Top tips

Use fingers in a beckoning motion in addition to oral sex this method can produce and intense reaction.

Use sex toys, especially those designed with a curved tip, try coupling sex toys with oral sex. Many women say that vibrators are the best way to excite the G-spot.

Some women say that it is much easier to stimulate their G-spot once they are already very turned on by clitoral stimulation, so have a lot of foreplay.

Positioning yourself with your hips pushed forward can help you get there, pull your knees toward your chest and put a pillow under your hips.

During intercourse, in the missionary position with your man high up on you. This causes the base of his penis to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot! A variation would be with him standing up and you on a counter that positions him slightly above your point of entry.

Another position that works well is rear entry, on all fours the angle allows his penis to put pressure on the anterior wall where the G-spot is. Experiment with your legs being together, a little bit apart, or spread wide. Also see what it’s like to bend far forward or stretch up, on your tummy, or sitting back onto his lap.

When on top, try sliding yourself forward and back, without bouncing up and down. This action can stimulate both your clitoris and your G-spot. Also try leaning back, bracing yourself with your hands on his legs or the bed so that you can move up and down. Your lover can help bring you to orgasm by using his fingers to play with your clitoris, holding onto your hips, or pushing himself up toward you.

Remember that as a woman, you probably need to be mentally and emotionally stimulated because physically stimulation for sex to be fantastic. So set the scene so you aren’t distracted will help you fully experience the ecstasy.

Open up communication during sexual encounters. Especially because it is difficult for most women to "let go," it can be extremely helpful to have a word of encouragement from your lover when you feel like holding back.

Make sure your partner’s fingernails are clipped and clean if you can. Because the G-spot is generally something you want to massage with more force than other areas, so avoiding scratching.

Remember that stimulating your G-spot is most likely to produce an extra strong fulfilling orgasm if there is plenty of foreplay. The increased blood flow to your genital area as you get turned on makes all parts of you more sensitive.

Sometimes the G-spot area and the clitoris can be too sensitive to enjoy. If you think this might be the case, try asking your partner to stimulate other parts of your body at the same time. For example get him to stroke your anus while attempting to arouse the G-spot, massage your breasts, kiss your inner thighs, or grab onto your thighs and buttocks. He could caress your tummy, rib cage, back, shoulders or feet. Even some gentle scratching can help distract you from the intensity of overstimulation.

Research shows that stimulation of the G-spot greatly increases one’s pain threshold. The outcome is that gentle biting or scratching can be very erotic and feel great if the G-spot is being stimulated. Some say the G-spot is responsible for easing some pain during childbirth.