Not for you? You are not alone!
Cruicial.com has found that couples would rather do 7 other things before going on a date with their partner. We find out what could be more important than quality time with a loved one and reveal why it’s not as bad as you might think!
Watching TV/ movie- For some couples- this equates to a date night- for those partners who don’t have much time for each other- an hour or two watching a movie, while giving each other a foot rub doesn’t sound like such a bad thing.
Taking a nap- Napping together is the best thing in the world. Being under the covers with one another does not have to be about sex- it can be about snuggling up and getting some well needed rest in each other’s arms. Having a nap during the day feels naughty enough sometimes!
Cooking a meal for two- It may not be expensive and fancy, but when your man cooks you a meal at home- it can mean more than just passing over the credit card. It shows that they have taken time and effort out of their day to put a smile on your face- now that isn’t so bad is it?
Going to the gym- This could be construed as avoidance where relationships are concerned- but that release of endorphins in your partner makes them happier, more energetic and shows that they still care about their health. All positives I would say.
Catch up on work- Sometimes this can seem that they are putting work before you- but at the end of the day- if neither of you go the extra mile you might not be able to afford your home, holidays, food and all the other things you own and value. It’s worth an extra hour or two to keep you both in the lives you have become accustomed to.
Reading- Sometimes just curling up in bed with a good book while you play footsie can be the best feeling ever. You are touching so you know your partner is safe and close, but you are also giving each other time for hobbies. The key to any good relationship.
Drinks with friends- Having that space and freedom away from a relationship is every important- spending all your time together is not healthy- so you need to strike a balance of around 75% of time spent with your partner and 25% spent with your friends.
Date nights can be awesome and for those couples who can afford the time and the money to go out and have them- that is a wonderful thing. But for those who are on a budget- sometimes- it’s the little things that can mean just as much as the grand gesture of a date night. couples who can get by on having very little to keep them content are those who have the strongest bond of all.